ppotyman23

Dear Bossy: My last girlfriend and I were very into bedroom play, and over the course of our relationship, I collected a hefty number of toys for said play. The relationship ended and I kept my favourites. I’ve been seeing another woman, and I suggested the use of toys in bed, and she agreed. Then I showed her my collection, and she was...well, a little shocked I think. She then asked if I’d ever used them with another partner,High Heels Red Bottom Disconoeud 140mm, and I confessed that I had (but I’ve washed them!!!).

She then told me that if I wanted us to play with the toys together,High Heels Red Bottom Daffodile 160mm, I would have to buy all new ones, and also told me that she was a little scared by the number of toys that I had, like it was some sort of problem. We didn’t have sex that night, and we haven’t since. She has now said that she wants me to throw the whole lot out, because they are something that I shared with my ex. I don’t see them that way, they are just erotic toys. I don’t feel an emotional link between my ex and the toys. I don’t want to throw out my collection...is my new girlfriend being too demanding? Or am I missing something here? I really like this woman, but we haven’t been together for me to know if it is really going to last, so is it worth throwing away my much-loved toys just to please her?

Bossy says: Keep your toys by all means but don’t expect your new girlfriend to feel happy about using them.

She’s not being too demanding. You’re being a wally. It’s not like she’s asking you to get a whole new set of dinnerware because your last girlfriend ate off those same plates. You’re asking her to use the same sex toys. And in the words of one wise woman...."Yerrrrrch".

You don’t have to bin the toys. You could hide them and bring them out when you are alone. But if you want to start a new, meaningful relationship with this new woman I’d suggest you see a brand new set of toys as an investment in the future.

Totally agree Charlie Harper, Oh and DJ exhibits section 9 of my cat owners guidelines from his previous post.

It’,High Heels Red Bottom Fifi 100mm;s funny how it’s always a crazy cat lady but you never seem to hear about a crazy cat man… why is that?

I have noticed that dog’s are usually purchased as an enhancement of a fully functional family unit and a positive household. They are purchased by positive, fun loving and outgoing people. Cats I have found are purchased by people that are in a social slump, they are a depressing animal for depressing and boring people. Please challenge my opinion to prove my point.

Now if you are even one of these you are eligible. Deny it if you want but you know it’s true.

Cats portray the same assholish attitude bad boys use to attract women and it appears cats have the same ability to draw in the mentally retarded as well. Cats don’t care about you, they come for their feed then go off on their own agenda, they probably have 3 or 4 other owners you have no idea about. They are selfish in nature and care little for humans.

Now dogs, they are mans best friend for a reason. They are loyal and dependant on you for survival. Now cat owners will argue that’s their downfall, but I say that strengthens the bond between you, much like a mother and child,High Heels Red Bottom Hyper Prive 120mm. It’s give and take. You feed and nuture a dog and it will repay you in friendship and loyalty. Feed and nurture a cat and you get little attention and a whole lot of fur and shit.

There is a certain breed of people that buy cats and they mostly (for all the stupid people that say “you can’t group us all together like that") all have the same traits. Here is a small list I have compiled that would make you think you should by a cat: